David Meessen
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Spot the wrong woman before she costs you years. And recognize the right one when she's standing in front of you.
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What's inside
Chemistry gets you to date three. Compatibility gets you to year thirty.
30 red flags
Thirty red flags in three layers: values, emotional, behaviour & lifestyle. Know which layer you're looking at, and you'll know how seriously to take it.
12 signs of wife material
Twelve signs that sound almost too simple, each with the tell you can spot on a first date. From "she likes herself" to "she brings peace".
The 2-minute Scorecard
Tick what you've seen, not what you hope. After the third date and again at three months: walk away, gather more data, or keep going.
Also inside: your written standard, the 6-step system, a real client case study and an honest FAQ.
"The question is never her worst moment. The question is where she lives ninety-five percent of the time."From the guide
Your coach
I'm David Meessen. I grew up in Germany with red hair and zero confidence around women. Later I married a woman who wasn't right for me. I didn't see a single red flag until it had cost me years.
A mentor at Salesforce in Dublin showed me how to start a conversation with a woman, and I treated dating like any other skill: a system, a standard, feedback, no ego. That's how I met my fiancée Fernanda, by walking up to her in a pub and saying hello.
Since then I've coached hundreds of men through the same process. Doctors, founders, finance guys, engineers. Men who were winning everywhere except here.
Clients
"It's actually been the best relationship I've ever had."
"6 months ago, I never imagined I'd be in a fulfilling relationship. Now I'm meeting her family. Things feel solid."
From one date every couple of months to married. In David's words, "the happiest he's ever been".
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